1. To not wait. We as women know sometimes that you can’t always read our minds when it comes to sex, but you should know that when you make the first move it lets us know that we are wanted. That we are desired in such an intimate way. A guy can never go wrong when he seduces his woman. We want to be seduced and shown that we are sexy and when a you start foreplay it tells us that we are attractive. So men don’t think that women are all for equality and all that liberation crap! Sometimes they want you to make the first move.
2. If you’re going there make sure you know what you’re doing. Now, oral sex is very very very pleasurable but if you’re down there and she’s doing more backing away rather than pulling you into her, then you’re not doing it right. Word of advice, that little bud that sometimes swells after being stimulated is the clit or clitoris, not a button on an X-Box controller. You can’t just press it and think she’ll get an automatic orgasm. It does not work that way. Or when you’re sucking on it like you’re going rabid, that is not really helping your cause either. It should be stroked gently by your tongue and lightly sucked on. Not like you’re a damn Dyson vacuum. Also there is more than the clit that gets her off. You must also realize that there is an opening down there that has nerve endings that have been heightened dramatically during this foreplay. Women don’t really care to tell you what to do because if you’re down there you should know already BUT and I cannot stress this enough, BUT if you are not doing it right they we will let you know. Also, don’t put all your focus on that. As you’re pleasing her, allow your hands to touch her. This lets her know that it’s not all about you devouring her goods, but about how she feels while you’re pleasuring her. How you love the softness of her thighs and her hips. Even reaching and caressing her breast will show her that you are focusing on her as a woman. And you may get a pleasure in return. Women love to please just as much as they’ve been pleasured. When done right.
4. Be aggressive. B-E aggressive. Not that I really have to explain this one but I think I will anyway. (It is my favorite. SMHL) Now, showing how much of a lover you are is sweet. Soft touches is good. Gentle tugs of our hair. But there are those times where we want our hair pulled. Our asses slapped not smacked. We like to take charge (I do), BUT we LOVE it when a man takes over. When you flip us, twist us, and bend us into positions we’ve never been in we become more turned on. We love it. There maybe those few women that don’t like it. GET A NEW GIRL! (just kidding) But honestly, women love it when a man tried new things and is aggressive when doing it. Just not too rough. Don’t almost kill the woman. Again unless she is into that. (Not me.) And as much as they deny it women love for a man to put his all into his moves. To make sure she feels it. Yeah, let me get off this subject ASAP. SMHL.
4. Be vocal. No matter what you think women want to hear you. Not just you moaning and groaning to every stroke, but saying actual words. “Fuck me!” “Harder!” “Faster!” “More!” “Don’t stop!” “Oh shit!” “Suck it!” “Damn you feel good.” These are the base demands and comments when it comes to being verbal in bed, or car, or couch, or where ever you two decide to get it on. Once you are comfortable with those simple ones and you get a feel of her answers then you can add to your dictionary. It’s a fact that women are vocal no matter what. Our moans and demands heightened your want to give us just what we request. Thanks for catching on so quickly. So open your mouth and talk to us. We do like it.
5. Returning the favor. Don’t really care what your woman says, nine times out of ten she’s performed oral sex on a man before! And if she’s doing it right she has orgasm from pleasuring you. I’m just keeping it 100. But that does not mean that she won’t take instruction from you either. She wants to know what you like. The mission (and there are those that accept it), is to get you to orgasm or on the brink of one. Not all women swallow so don’t get mad if she moves just before ending with a hand job for the finish. She’s not ready for that yet. (Not many are.) Women will try and figure you out and most of the time they already know how to make you go mad and have your eyes in the back of your head, but she’s wanting to please you so tell her what you want. (Goes back to being vocal)
6. Seeing is believing. Yeah, yeah, yeah, women masturbate so if she says she don’t she’s lying. And we know you guys are lying. It’s a part of human nature. We explore our bodies to know what we like and what we don’t like. But this is not all about you being alone when you do it. This is about allowing her to see you. Watching a man pleasure himself is a great turn on. It shows how you want to be handled. It sets off something within a woman that makes her antsy and wanting to touch. It’s temptation for her. She wants to touch you but cant she wants to pleasure you but cant. And vice versa, she will tempt you but you can’t touch her. She’ll show you if she wants her nipples pinched, plucked, or sucked. And you’ll almost die from watching her because, again, you’ll want to touch her. And cant. You’ll want to do everything she’s doing to herself but you can’t. Right down to where her hand has trailed to and what it’s doing. But you can't.
7. Afterwards. If you guys know what it was. A fling, a one-nighter, then okay. But realize before that any kind of sexual encounter has an emotional bind to it. Women have to like you to give it to you. Emotion is not always love so do always think that she’s going to fall in love. But to those that are into their partners afterglow is the best. For a man to hold his woman after it tells her that you are there with her. That you were there with her the entire time. Not just physically but mentally and emotionally. To be held afterwards seals whatever type of relationship you have. Coming down from that orgasmic high together, beside each other is the shit. (LOL) No better way to sum it up! It is the highlight of the “after”. Don’t just get up and head to the shower. It’s not nice (mean face). Stick around for a few minutes. She’s probably already bitten you (I do bite) so the biting part is over and done with. But again if the two of you are adult enough to up and leave the scene then okay.
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